Life is Hard, Marriage is Easy is truly a gem and an inspiring guide for anyone preparing to spend their life with their partner. As someone already in a common-law relationship and now planning to get married, I found Kerry St. Martin’s words deeply meaningful and full of wisdom. The book beautifully combines real-life experiences, heartfelt guidance, and timeless biblical truths, giving us practical tools and spiritual encouragement to strengthen our relationship. It’s not just a book, it’s a compass pointing us toward love, commitment, and God’s best for our marriage journey.

Even though I’m not officially married yet, this book really opened my eyes to what a God-centered marriage should look like. ‘Life is Hard: Marriage is Easy’ breaks down the principles of Truth, Choice, and Love in a way that’s practical and easy to apply. It helped me reflect on how I communicate, make decisions, and build trust with my partner now, before we even say ‘I do.’ The biblical references and real-life examples made it feel realistic, not just theoretical. I feel more confident about stepping into marriage with intention, faith, and respect for each other. Definitely a five-star read!

“Life is Hard…Marriage is Easy” is a book that has truly transformed my view of marriage, revealing not just what I thought it should be, but what God truly intends it to be. I had many misconceptions about how marriage should operate. However, after experiencing the teachings within the book and embracing its proven educational tools, I now possess a clear and inspiring understanding of God’s design for marriage. I am confident that the wisdom I have gained from “Life is Hard… Marriage is Easy” will empower me to cultivate a deeply fulfilling, God-centered relationship with my future husband to come, as we share a journey to fulfill God’s purpose together.

Book Review: Life is Hard Marriage is Easy: What God Intended Marriage to Be by Kerry Michael St. Martin Marriage is often spoken of as one of life’s greatest challenges, but Kerry Michael St. Martin turns that notion on its head In Life is Hard Marriage is Easy, he argues that while life itself is undeniably difficult, marriage-when built on God’s foundation-is intended to be a source of strength, harmony, and fulfillment rather than constant conflict. This perspective immediately sets the book apart from typical discussions on marriage, offering readers a refreshing and faith-centered outlook. At the heart of the book is

concept of “The Holy Trinity of Marriage”-Truth, Choice, and Love. St. Martin explains that these three elements are not abstract ideals, but practical principles that can reshape the way couples experience their relationship. Truth calls for honesty, transparency, and vulnerability. Choice emphasizes that love and commitment are not just feelings, but conscious decisions made daily. Love, the greatest of all, is rooted in God’s own nature, reminding readers that marriage mirrors divine love when nurtured properly.

The author does not ignore the difficult realities many couples face. He acknowledges the pain of infidelity, the destructive pull of selfishness, and the damaging effects of emotional disconnection. Yet rather than portraying these struggles as inevitable burdens of marriage, he reframes them as obstacles that can be overcome when couples return to God’s design. By combining biblical wisdom, personal anecdotes, and practical scenarios, St. Martin equips couples to address challenges in ways that strengthen, rather than fracture, their bond.

This book encompasses so much spiritual wisdom for readers of all Christian backgrounds who are seeking a godly love and forever partnership. I loved the intersections of faith-based, practical, and personal examples and perspectives. It was super engaging and very uplifting!